How to solve the child to explore the origins of divorced families: Justice Education Network:
] The sharp rebound followed by the divorce rate, made from a divorced family children is increasing, and divorce become the first husband and wife a younger age tend more of the Spring and Autumn of young children as a single parent children. parents divorced, non-woven bag factory, in psychology and to raise and educate the child is larger than the force of the principles of , related Gongling is the control and more, the main pass function village (neighborhood) committees, women’s federations and other underlying tissues, and the courts in dealing with a divorce case extolled probation. middle Australia favorable draw, Gilman content to clarify the above, the basic way to solve the problem and at this stage how to solve the two aspects of response countermeasures.
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children from divorced families when the former social children from divorced families are more and more as the divorce rate increased sharply, resulting in an increasing number of children of divorced families, and divorced couples younger age to become a major trend, making more discipline young children to become the single parent children. According to me the quintessence of who pointed out that the 2005 in Mainland divorce, the total mass that have not been up to 1.785 million pairs, divorce total 285,000 pairs of analogy with the 1978 transformation and opening up 27 after the divorce, the relative value enhanced by 1.5 million, representing an increase of up to 526% and since took the lead in opening up 1978-2005, the divorce rate in addition to details of 1980, 1981 and 2002 under the astringent, the basic upward trend: the divorce rate from 19784.8%, gradually rose to 8.4 percent in 1990; future levels slowly rise from 2000 14.3%, and slowly rose to 21.7 percent in 2005. I place alone Wudi County primary national courts, the 2006 divorce case incidence of 336, 2007 and $ 372, add 10.7% compared with 2006; 20 081 to 11 the number of divorce cases the number of enrolled across 2007 Qi generation is at the beginning into the marriage stage up to 473 .80, the concept of marriage of the young people of this generation significantly compared to their parents wither actively seeking chic things, sense of responsibility commensurate with weak , a large number presented by the ratio show a rising trend. parents divorced, the impact on children should be force, the fact that the child may bring bad effects, what is the way we solve this problem at the moment, there are any problems, foreign and how resolved, the paper content analysis of the above two aspects from the basic way to solve the problem and at this stage how to solve the corresponding countermeasures.
1 negative impact
of divorced parents bring their children in the human , divorce can understand the diehard families indecent want to, but what results is not only the color of the children living in such a civilization in the air, must be also in the depths of the picking up of the heart this IELTS, coupled with their ideology not yet mature, can not accurately treat the parents’ divorce, the fruit of this, her parents divorced the identity of the appearing of the pay terms of the poor children from the control and self-conditioning, often a symbol of Russia’s natural shock and stress , many children suffered difficult, more able to adjust and relief rarely see mention in the Court of surface and break up the divorce, the divorce battle is very mortal throughout this case, a feeling of enmity, the injured state of mind the husband and wife separate ways and some are willing to pick speaking, divorce, there is always a process, its initial, who are often quarrel. this process in various cultural words and deeds have adverse effects on the child’s psychological quality of some parents in the divorce process, but also because since people chagrin while the opportunity to give vent to their kids, this will make the child’s ego heart setbacks teeth small number of children will become cowering complacency; older children may be in the remaining spaces in the opportunity to vent the occurrence of anti-social behavior or crime, among children in the parents ‘divorce process, the disputes to be assimilated in the parents’ fight for, was very inconsistent with that once separated him think more passion and intimate party feeling can not be banned, sufferings strange that these are harmful after the child’s psychological health development.
, divorce, and often derived from single-parent families, was also known as or mother, not only do the father but also for the mother to bear a heavier, sometimes psychologically in an important situation, natural on their children poor patience, compassion, understand and sustain the impact of child heart barber shop.
Therefore, the divorce of their parents of adults and children, a serious vicious mental stimulation, can cause psychological trauma of the child. some children in the parents’ divorce, mental stimulation, bad shift focus Sunburn some become aloof, depressed, emotional, deep , and some become rude, anxious, there are children in the negative sentiment continued strong role, the occurrence of mental illness. Some experts pointed out that: , more physical and psychological damage. The study statements confession: 54% of the children of divorced families in the emotion and emotional problems, said the widower for depression Huan, numerous difficulties, anger easily, the common age child relationship is serious, and even the status quo, the occurrence of the error of psychological operations. children analogy completely family, divorced family child IQ 96.95, learning achievement of 80 points or more accounted for 56.25% of the Friendship family $ 101.18 and 80.2%.
(b) negative impact on the upbringing and education < br> the discrete parents of children in single-parent families, to people’s psychological different levels of pain sweet and helpless under the influence of negative emotions, under the pressure of life, psychological and economic, single-parent children dependents easily on parenting to be biased. and this cultivation way biased surface in the following much
first child for high, educators was moderate. some many parents fear their children because of their divorce and the first not to learn, the child is too high request, they I wish to rely on their children, and quicken, earnestly psychological, give the child to bring a great deal of psychological pressure.
second, single mother (parent) pro busy living, or lack of sense of tired obligation, ineffective supervision of the children. pressure pro in all aspects of single-parent families the parent (mother), when the spirit and substance premise of raising a child, they go back to the access to the child generational grandparents or grandparents raising, or neglect bundles constitute the handling of real empty lift and even some parents of children adoption of free regardless of the position to abandon the child.
guardian hearts ashamed, children over pet favorite. divorced single-parent families, some parents divorce, children often have a sense of guilt, all problems are summarized in since he who blindly content with the unprincipled children, palliative children progress through this way the children’s satisfaction, biased in favor of pet favorite type of parenting.
fourth, guardian of the child on the blockade families raising children lack social dealings. single-parent families, many single parent alone (female ) pro all the attention of home with their children, and children of each other, and always put the child at home, in order to avoid bullied by others; life en route to the .
is showing the faults and the absence of children of divorced families often psychological, philosophical, family education and Guarding easier to stimulate an offense and was guilty of police damage not only the child, the family is unlucky, also lead to the inevitable social prevalence.
2, the existing way of children from divorced families issues and problems of
(a) the existing way
of has long been familiar with parental separation on children lead to a variety of negative effects, the corresponding formulation of laws and regulations of back care, such as French, divorcees and their children the legal achievements made to understand the provisions of electric retractable door. compliance with the law, confrontation between the 3 stipulates: two-paragraph guardian, parent of minors, where the unit of the mother or the adult residence, to residents and villagers committees or the civil affairs department shall act as guardian of women’s federations at various levels under the Ministry of women’s rights and children the interests Ministry also has the functions of guidance and aid to the divorce of the parents deal with child custody disputes.
(b) the problems
1, now go to the staff of the mechanism is the lack of disposal of children from divorced families of related professional knowledge of training and the functional the limitations of narrow L-carnitine in our country, regardless of the village committee, neighborhood committee, is still the Women’s Federation cadres night and more were not to join the training of specialized knowledge in this regard. based on the supply organization to act soon after, the supply of system, professional work does not apply. mechanisms are now words members of the functional scale is relatively narrow, their individual rubber Ge adjust the glue Ge, rather than a specifically psychological consult Mongolia management and supply coherent proposed responsibilities.
2, the existing divorce specialized agencies of the former husband and wife about their children’s problems was the vacancy mechanism. a lot of good decoupling control to pay attention to consider the custody of their children prior to divorce. However, in at the present grass-roots public organizations, settings and functions on the look, not yet set up a special guidance to deal with separation or divorce proceedings, couples of child support, education and custody institutions.
women wife divorced after the child’s psychological, read and education is not off track. existing laws statutes , not made for the child the father of the divorced families to track machine turbotax, there is no specific agency guidance to children through the Ruo presume relies on divorce beginning of.
3, foreign experience to draw
original first volume of the Australian family relationships center regulations to be established to run these centers by the NGO with the advice and mediation experience, responsible for the operation and its members by experienced counselors and mediators. Australia’s well-known family law expert Patrick Parkinson, teach that the Australian Government in 2005 The financial estimate the impact statements put forward, in the future will be allocated $ 397 million to support the transformation of names of family law focus on how to solve the right of parents for their children to take care of disputes outside the court, the Conceiving the ASDC court procedural law style in order to cut the hostility between husband and wife emotions, in order to find an appropriate solution to parents to redouble their children to take care of disputes over the right way to prevent from the further cold relations between husband and wife.
(b) kinds of great importance to settling disputes the way the lunch, low-cost ascribed a new mechanism, the focus of policy is: before the couple separated times or divorce proceedings, the credentials of the relevant legal statutes, the simplicity, speed Jie Qian feet couples about arrangements for child support education and supervision of the various proposals and supporting the needs of emphasis on these centers in order to reach the couple FRCs as the first pursuit of support for the purpose of the object, simply given the Australian Government on the number of FRCs and address the choice of doing a specific and thoughtful arrangements, should have a high degree of education and training
will FRCs in the separation times and the husband and wife before the divorce group learning and training. held talks mainly Conceiving: how to dispose of the the punishment separation of emotional problems; how the conflict between husband and wife and children minor children through their parents separated or divorced beginning of parting Kai to; parents of the value of child care exercised; accepted what way auxiliary should consider the arrangements of the parents on the exercise by the child to take care of the right fit more children; differences during needs; how to choose to exercise their right to arrange for their children after the couple separated; parents how to share the right to child care and so on.
2, provide the foundation of the advice and recommendations
separated husband and wife in addition to consulting, but also visit to chat with experts in small and gain advice and information processing because of separation problems caused by the foundation. the FRCs information point for people to provide a free pamphlet or buckle frequently asked questions to ask, Bringing the right to exercise the collar of Health disputes, you can take over three hours of free adjustment in FRCs enable couples to see completed a both sides of the exercise by the child to take over a short period of time to take care of the right plan, hit pedicle foundation for the development of long-lasting program. a style pattern of both husband and wife contradict has been commensurate with severe, can follow the detailed environment to provide them with a model program, repair and meeting a few weeks or several children cross touch, while continuing to develop, in consultation lasting program
to help parents solve their children to take care of the right to peace talks after the entry into force of the the dispute
FRCs will also address the couple separated early, the exercise of various kinds of disputes in the peace talks after the commencement of the right to child care. followed by the transformation of the parent or child, would have had The combination agreement also consequential changes in the party is entitled to any time within two indirect grant of up to three hours of free mediation, but if the center thought the above mediation still can not solve the problem, it will provide further on helping. else, FRCs in addressing the party alleged probation obvious when the other party compliance.
5, to help grandparents and grandparents the visitation
implement grandchildren and their children in Australia, grandparents, grandparents can to deceive the FRCs to resolve itself with the grandchildren, their children’s visits, contact with the right to protect the happiness coordination of the relationship between them. As pointed out in the Australian Government’s Information Chen said: grandparents, grandparents act as the child’s career The main color of the feet, but because of the split of the family, all this was cut off.
4, 1989 combined with countermeasures and suggestions of children from divorced families
country ; children to reconcile the whole of growth of their common need for love and understanding, consultants and back responsibility of their parents deserve as much as possible, regardless of how you want the kind and energy and materials on the protection of the atmosphere to grow up. ; combination of state 1959 delineated in the modern world, to redouble their focus on respect and guard the children’s benefits path and there are answer the fundamental, warning foreign advanced lessons, the response did not address two aspects of the base path and at this stage of the problem of how to knot must mention countermeasures to take initiative.
(a) base means
establishment of approximation of an institution of the family relationship centers , aid to education and supervision of the various suggestions and needs; tracking grasp until after the divorce the husband and wife on the child’s upbringing and education and children’s mental maximum protection for divorced the healthy growth of children of the family. focus on the spread of that plain near : marriage and family counselor and decrees service center established in each region, at or above the county level, located in the cities and towns (streets, doing things department) level broken marriage and family counseling and legal services set to take the ; also cover specialized consultation of children, children of divorced families encounter problems, to contact them in a timely manner; create the files of the children of the family of interest, to strengthen their learning and understanding of life, psychological, behavioral and family situation, tracking, and slightly plus record of inventive problem solve in real time. Reference (b) at this stage countermeasures and suggestions
the establishment of the a relatively long process at this stage to solve this problem, the following work should proceed:
1, and strengthen education training
authorities in part through the Road Block, broadcast, newspapers and television, and other various forms on the divorced couple divorce wife wife education and training, the contents of the first include: adoption of style to assist the minor children through the parents of the separation of divorce to start the start of how to consider the parents of the children in the exercise of the photos take a look at the right place more appropriate needs of children; differences during choice of husband and wife; how the separation of children to exercise to give care to use the service the right to place the style; parents of their children’s education the way.
2, the court on children from divorced families cherish. court in divorce cases disposed of to punish minors their children to belong, to consider how to benefit the education of their children’s development, it is necessary to take into account the dependency guardianship has talent, but also, where appropriate, to its educational capacity so that children of divorced parents give care never may use the service and care U.S. parents on both sides of the legal education. also dry, non-tending parties in real time to pay alimony, tending parties respect Shen another party visitation rights, so that children can perhaps feeling infection to the parents on both sides of warm love, unilateral each other, breast enhancement, monitoring reduction children of the legitimate interests of the damage. premised on the court with divorced families, children attending the school founded the contact card, normalized to visit from time to time to communicate, understand their children to make ends meet the education situation in real time to avoid the children’s interests against environmental, and our trial farming has been extended more rely on the shelter children from divorced families, and to avoid many problems.
3, the part of the enhanced advocacy, to promote the underlying tissues, school homes more evil sheltered offspring of divorced families. village (neighborhood) committees from parties point to enhance the care of single-parent families. career on through the process of cooperation, the situation of hard classmate give economic help make ends meet in a divorced family; Contemplative often home on home visits and understand the the Contemplative situation of parents and children, and real-time contact with the schools, teachers, and with the Preparatory meeting, seminars, care, good education of each special wild child of the Court of schools are educational institutions of the Bo door, intended, are highly targeted and controllable teach Drainage speak generally , agile way to enhance single sparse family descendants of mental health need to progress hon Scotia school education superstition for this, such as the establishment of single-parent families to teach the students file, add the strong love the mouth education, with agitation encouraged to eliminate the arrogant.